Bookstore Bonanza

Dear readers, I did it. I went to a new bookstore (a big 2-story Borders), bravely sought out the naughty section, and even (gasp!) made a purchase.

It wasn't easy. I wandered around for quite a while before I found anything good. I didn't expect there to be giant SEXY BOOKS OVER HERE signs to point the way, but sheesh, there's gotta be a way to make the good stuff easy to find, yet not in full view of the coffee bar and children's section.

Anyway. Among my wanderings, I saw this book and the cover made me laugh. Fae lust? For realz?

Then I found the self-help books, which always seem like they should include some good stuff on sex, but never do. I mean come on, when you see Dr. Laura smiling out at you, you know it's not getting sexy in that section.

The hottest thing I found here was:

Puh-leeze.

But finally, upstairs in a back corner at the end of the literature section, I found it. Eureka! Two big fat cases full of sexy reads.

I thought it was funny that the official category here was Sex/Fertility/Contraception. There were ZERO books on fertility and contraception, and a LOT of books on Kama Sutra.

The erotica looked pretty good too. Quite a few Penthouse anthologies, which I'm assuming aren't really my taste, but lots of other books that looked intriguing. Has anyone ever tried the Sleeping Beauty books by Anne Rice?

I love love love this title (and it's totally cheap at Amazon):

But this was the book that finally tempted me to get out my wallet. Full color photos of good looking people engaging in literally hundreds of positions. At last, I've found what I was looking for:

My bookstore bill went over $70 in the end. Oops.

Then I came home, set up an Amazon store for this site, and discovered that all these books are MUCH cheaper on Amazon. So, lesson learned.

And, if you like any of our book, movie, martini, and "toy" recommendations, please consider making a purchase through our Amazon store. We'll get a pittance, which we'll plow back into this important work we're doing here. Thanks!

Sexy Movie Thursday: Y Tu Mama Tambien

Two exceeding horny college students take an older woman with them on a road trip to a beach in Mexico. The two male protagonists talk about sex in an adolescent, inexperienced way that alternates between annoying and endearing. Their traveling companion takes it all in stride, and the trio gets closer and closer throughout the journey. The story is very good, and the characters are real, flawed and charming. The sex scenes are steamy and realistic, in their successes and their failures. It's sweet and sad and funny, not at all porn-y.

Will There Be Sex After?
Yes, probably. It's a sexy movie that gets even sexier in act three.

Can you watch it with your husband?
Depends on the husband. There is a brief kiss between the two young men. Very brief. But be forewarned if bro-on-bro kissing is saltpeter for your particular fella.

Trailer: okie-dokie

Vibe of the Week: Hitachi Magic Wand

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"Take care of you."

If only all of our best friends were coked out prostitutes. Then we might have someone reminding us about the most important thing to do as a mom, "Take care of you."

Now, I'm all for a spa day, but a lot of stay-at-home-moms are already cutting corners just to stay at home. And the working moms? They have to shell out for daycare. So, what can you do to refresh and feel great without spending a lot of money?

1. Set a date with yourself. Put aside a day a month and send the kids off with dad or grandma. Just to refresh. Alone. There is nothing worse than finally feeling great about grown-up time, only to have the old man catch a glimpse of you fresh from the "steam room" and fancy a go.

2. Take a bath. Obvious, I know. But like the kind with all the paraphernalia. Like a body brush, essential oil, razor,...all that. My routine is as follows: Turn on shower, sprinkle essential oil around the tub. Let the room get steamy. Close and lock the door, (for once!), and switch shower to bath. Settle into the tub and use the brush to gently sweep over and exfoliate your skin, brushing toward your heart. Then shave your legs and other regions. Lay back and relax. Now your whole body clean and smooth.

3. Facial time! In a pinch, I've used baking soda and water for an exfoliating scrub, and olive oil to moisturize. But use whatever makes you happy.

4. Pedicure? Use a pumice sponge to clean your feet and then slap on moisture. My secret for amazing pedicures is to have a great top coat. Use whatever color you want and polish on that diamond hard clear coat. Your toes will look like professionals!

5. Massage. Whatever that means to you.

I'm sure you have your own beauty routine, let this simply be a gentle reminder to pay attention to yourself. You deserve it! Pampering yourself doesn't have to cost a small fortune and you don't even need to leave the house! Exclamation point!

7 Nights of Passion...Who's Got the Energy?

Rabbi Shmuley gives hot n heavy advice to married couples on how to keep love and sex ablaze. I am half-intrigued, half-appalled by his article on 7 Nights to Sexual Intimacy.

The gist of it is that you don't even have real sex until the seventh night. The nights leading up to it are a slow-paced, tantric build-up of intimacy and passion.

The Rabbi says he wants us to widen our definition of sex:

So often sex comes to mean simple intercourse followed by unfulfilling climax. Here, we are demonstrating that sex is all about making love. It involves not just a few parts of the body but all of the body. To make this effective, sexual control and discipline are, of course, mandatory. Succumbing to the desire to purge the sexual urge negates all that you wish to accomplish in terms of heightening arousal and increasing desire.

He makes it sound pretty hot, and I like the idea of widening the definition of sex beyond the you-got-10-minutes routine so many of us engage in.

On the other hand, though, seven nights of pseudo-sex with no orgasm till the end of the week sounds suspiciously like a lot of work.

But if it helps us relax? Reconnect with each other? Maybe it's worth trying. It's only seven nights after all, and as the Rabbi says, "it’s the intimate journey that is the reward."

Weekend Love

7 Things to Say While Getting it On.

"I am fairly fond of you."

That gets me soooo hot.

Mama Martinis: Antioxidant Special

Wine is so passe. We know, because even our French speaking friend agrees.

Instead, mama martinis are all the rage!

At our most recent late night brainstorming session, I mixed up these Antioxidant Specials. The vodka loosened our lips while the power fruits fueled our bodies. Or something. Anyway, they were tasty!

Directions:

1. Chill glasses in freezer. My guests were scared of the size of the glasses, but the extra room means you can actually make weaker drinks by adding more ice and mixers.

2. Put a few blueberries in with a little vodka, and muddle (smash up) the fruit.

3. Add one shot of vodka to each glass. If it's Stacy's*, add half a shot. If it's mine, add two.

4. Pour on some pomegranate mixer. YUM. Add some club soda, crushed ice, a few more blueberries, and a slice of orange.

5. Add a pretty straw and voila! Fresh n fruity, glam n girly, and they went real nice with popcorn and sex talk.

This just in! We now have an Amazon Store, and it includes a page of recommended Mama Martini accessories. Just add vodka!

Sexy Movie Thursday: Sex and Lucia

Complicated plot involves an attention-seeking writer who writes "fiction" about a real-life love affair in his past, the resulting bastard, and his attempts to involve himself in the child's life without the mother (one-night-stand - or rather, one-night-swim, in this case) finding out. Meanwhile, the writer's long-suffering girlfriend, Lucia, is inexplicably attracted to him and has a lot of sex with him. The sex isn't particularly sexy, it seems like it's heavily focused on a male audience. Some random inexplicable masturbation scenes, and a lot of scenes that don't move the story forward, but just have Paz Vega walking around naked, getting a drink of water, wandering around, not talking to anyone, just being naked. Even the relationship seems hollow. On their first meeting, she confesses to having been attracted to the writer from afar and wanting to have sex with him. Well, that's pretty handy, no seduction, no being nice, no taking care of relationship responsibilities, just, "Hi I'm Paz Vega and I'm especially eager to have sex with you, fulfill your striptease fantasies, have more sex, and walk around topless. You don't have to do anything, I'm already aroused. Let's go!"
So, this isn't a turn on for me, but rather the opposite, because I think it reinforces unrealistic and unhealthy stereotypes about how women should behave in sexual relationships. That, and a child gets mauled to death by a dog.

Will There Be Sex After?
Not if you watch it all the way to the end. If you don't have the negative-female-stereotype hang-ups I do, you might want to stop somewhere after act one and put on the Marvin Gaye and see how you do.

Can you watch it with your husband?
Indeed, your husband is probably the target audience. I personally don't like to watch movies like this with my guy, because I think it promotes this idea that this is how real women behave. My guy's smarter than that, but, you know.

Trailer: But it has a nice score.

Vibe of the Week: Rubber Ducky

Think vibrators are too conspicuous? Check out this little guy. The I Rub My Duckie waterproof vibe makes bath time lots of fun! A round head and a pointed tail feature three types of vibration. A little something for everyone.

Recommended Use
Use in the tub or shower or even the Jacuzzi! No need to hide!

Best Features

• Inconspicuous
• A variety of contact areas
• Cute!
• Three vibration levels
• Quiet
• Made of latex-free and phthalate-free PVC
• Three out of five stars with 30 reviews
• Available in travel-size
  

Worst Features

• More water resistant than waterproof
  
• Doesn't float like a true rubber duck, floats on its side
• May not be powerful enough

Cost
$9-$30

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A Little Bit Kinky

There was a time, before kids of course but mostly before marriage too, when I enjoyed getting a little bit kinky. When the relationship is still relatively new and you don't know all of each other's secrets yet, it can be easier to let loose, experiment, suddenly become the kind of person who would do...anything.

Ironically, although years of marriage obviously make you more intimate and comfortable with one another, all that knowing can also put a damper on the adventurous side of sex. Couples tend to settle into their sexual routines: a couple of positions, a few reliable moves, an understanding of what is likely to occur.

Sound boring? Agreed.

That's why I've been thinking of how to make things just A Little Bit Kinky. Here are a few ideas:

1. If your sex life is pure vanilla, maybe a silk scarf tying your wrists together will be incredibly edgy (and drive you incredibly up the wall?). Or, just ask husband to pin down your arms or hold your wrists above your head.

2. On your next date night, suggest that the two of you visit an adult shop together. Make it a rule that you each need to buy something the other will enjoy.

3. If you can pull off a full S&M outfit complete with leather and whip--hey, we say go for it. But most of us would freak out our husbands or (worse) make them laugh. So instead, try something just a little kinkier than your usual going-to-bed outfit. Black lacy bra? Thigh-high stockings? High heels in bed? Crotchless teddy?

4. Try a new position. Doggy style. Reverse cowgirl. Sitting up on a counter while he stands in front of you. (I still need to find a book on sexual positions. I'll do that and write a whole post on the subject sometime in the future, I promise!)

5. Pain can feel good. Ever gotten a spanking in bed? Or shoved a lover down hard? A little roughness at just the right time can be just what the (sex) doctor ordered.

Public Service Announcement

I'm sure we have a few readers who wonder where we stand on the sexual continuum. What do we at YG10M condone; what do we abhor. Just wanted to take a second to say:

We* at YG10M are for anything two, (or three, or four), consenting adult choose to do in their own bedrooms, (or kitchens, or dining rooms).

In case there was any confusion.


*The collective "we." If you want to know each of our proclivities, keep reading!

Sometimes, Just a Little Is Just Enough

Recently, Kimberly* saw Mario Lopez (that fount of wisdom!) on TV saying that he always goes to sleep intertwined with his lover, and that if you go to sleep back to back, it means the relationship is in trouble.

Um...has the man ever been married for longer than 5 minutes? Has he ever been really tired--the kind of bone-numbing exhaustion that comes when you've got small children? You gotta assume...no.

At our last playgroup, we all had a good laugh over Mario's dumbness, and then revealed our own marital sleeping patterns. Stacy* said that sometimes when she and her husband collapse into bed at night, she reaches over to give him a little pat-pat, so he knows he's loved.

Personally, I don't mind a hug before falling asleep. But I'm a light sleeper and I always run too hot, so there's no way I could fall asleep wrapped up in someone's arms.

Even if it were Robert Pattinson--at some point, I'd need my space. If it were Mario, I have a feeling I'd need a separate bed, just to get away from his grabby arms and sentimental notions.

With my own real-life husband, some tired nights I bid adieu by wiggling my toes against his toes. It may not sound like much to some people, but to us, it's love.

And, once my toes have wiggled good night, I can go back to dreaming about Robert Pattinson.

Porn for Women?

To a lot of women, me (K*) included, porn is a pretty controversial subject. Is it bad for women? Empowering? I still don't have any answers, but I'm a lot closer to understanding it, i.e., not as bad as I once thought and maybe even watchable now. After all, I'm over 30 and more confident in my body and my relationship. But, now, how can I find what turns me on?

The internets are so full of porn that searching seems like shopping in infinity. And the sheer thought of heading behind the curtain in a video store reminds me True Porn Clerk Stories, a hilariously frightening blog. So instead we here at YG10M found some resources to help everyone find what tickles their fancies:

Good Vibrations
Good vibes shoots its own videos and categorizes them for you. You can find the ratings on the website and in the catalog. They also feature plenty of video on demand. And there's section called "New to Porn."

Jane’s Guide
One of the oldest and best adult review sites can be found here. Also featuring book and toy reviews. (NSFW).

The Smart Girl’s Guide to Porn
Violet Blue’s book is one of the first to take women’s porn interest seriously. Written for the absolute beginner, it’s also a useful handbook for those who have experimented quite a bit with porn but haven’t found much to satisfy them.

It's kind of exciting to think that now we can finally find something that is made by women for women. Because if I have to listen to one more "erotic" story, written by a man, with bad saxophone music in the background I'm going to freak out. Freak. Out.

Thanks Sexier Sex Lessons!

Sexy Movie Thursday: Lie With Me

Two self-absorbed people with intimacy and self-esteem issues find each other and have a lot of sex. Pretty sexy sex, at that. Female Protagonist fucks recreationally, has to deal with the drama of being a one-man woman. Male Protagonist seems to have no means of support or gainful employment, but has a really sexy apartment where he spends most of his time having sex with Female Protagonist. Pretty light on the plot, but enough story to keep this on the non-porn side of the invisible line. The characters are unsympathetic and the story doesn't move in any compelling linear fashion.

Will There Be Sex After?
This movie ends? Hard to get that far. You'll probably want to stop in the middle. Seriously, this movie makes clumsy, drunk sex-with-only-marginally-attractive-strangers sexy somehow.

Trailer: Here you go.

Vibe of the Week: Laya Spot

Colorful and ergonomic this little vibe will look great in your pleasure chest. Perfect for travel with its discreet design and the five second start delay. Made of elastomer, the Laya Spot is hypoallergenic, great for ladies like me with odd allergies. It has five vibration settings and three vibration patterns. That's eight ways to Gett Off. (Club mix).

Pros:

• Waterproof
• Pretty
• Discreet shape
• Designed to be hands free
• Adjustable vibration
• Easy to clean
• Quiet

Cons:

• Some reviewers found it stopped working after only a few months
• A few reviewers felt it wasn't powerful enough (Like 5 out of 80)

Pricetag:

$48

After all that I'd still just buy it 'cause it's pretty. Reminds me of something James used to say...

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Plop, plop, fizz, fizz

Another reason to get it on:

Researchers have found that having an orgasm can help you fight off common illnesses. Manfred Schedlowski discovered that sexual activity increases adrenaline and prolactin plasma concentrations as well as the number of white blood cells. Which help your body fight disease.

So, the next time you feel a cold coming on, don't reach for the echinacea, reach for,...well, you know...

Top 10 Things to Do To Have Sex With Me Tonight

10. Instead of Facebook poker, try kitchen cleaning.

9. Take the kids to the park for an hour.
Tire them out.

8. Bring home dinner.
Doesn't have to be fancy.
Take and bake pizza, I don't care.

7. Pick up the bedroom.
It's hard to feel sexy while staring at your stinky socks.

6. Give me a sincere compliment.
Don't tell me I'm cute.

5. Bring me a cocktail and/or chocolate.
In a pretty glass. On a nice plate.

4. Get the kids bathed and tucked in.
Not one or the other. Both.

3. Rent a movie to watch with me. (And not that kind).
If we sense forethought, there may be foreplay.

2. Kiss my neck sans boner.
If I want one, I know how to get it.

1. Tell me I'm a great mother.

A Brand New You

I knew my lifestyle would change when I had kids. Hopefully, most of us figured that one out. As for my body, I figured I'd have stretch marks and bigger boobs but other than that my body would regain it's pre-pregnancy status once I lost the baby weight. It just goes to show that many of us have no idea what we're getting ourselves into.

Why did I think my boobs would be bigger? Wishful thinking, I guess. I was wrong. They're smaller. And I got the stretch marks I planned for. I also got separated abdominal muscles, a hernia, weakened hip joints, a C-section scar befitting two ten pound babies and all new hormone cocktails, just to name a few changes. The hernia and abdominal weaknesses led me to a wonderful physical therapist who helped me regain some strength and begin to rebuild a new body for me to carry around for the remainder. Just when I was feeling sorry for myself, she told me I should be glad I hadn't pushed out my oversized babies because then I could be looking at weakened pelvic floor muscles that could lead to things like incontinence and sagging or prolapsing organs...that means your bladder, anus or vagina could start to fall out! Oh, God! Why do you martyr the mothers so?

The worst part about all of this for me is that I only found my physical therapist because I knew someone who worked in her office. In our country, unlike many European nations, our medical professionals don't automatically discuss any of these possible post-partum issues with us. It would be oh, too easy for a new mom to think, "I guess this is just how I am now," while quietly suffering.

We at YG10M know how hard it is to get the sexy back in your marriage in the odd and frightening new world of motherhood but think how impossible it's going to be if you're equipment just isn't working right. So if your body or sex just aren't feeling right after the baby, get thee to a doctor or a physical therapist without delay. Muscle weaknesses can be corrected to a certain degree and strength maintained through physical therapy. You don't want to wait until you're shopping the adult diaper isle, you want to address it now. As Kimberly* said to me recently, "post-partum" is not just a couple of months, it's the rest of your life!

Maybe you've got Vulvar varicose veins, or a painful episiotomy scar. Maybe you can't wait as long before you have to pee anymore. Maybe you're feeling like things have shifted and there's a weight down there you didn't feel before. However pregnancy, labor and delivery took their toll on you, you are not the only one. And if you feel like everything has changed since you had kids, it's because it has! This is the brand new you, so get to know her and give her all the help she needs to feel good again.

And also? Do your kegels.

Action!

The Frisky posted a link to a Gizmodo post where the editors asked their readers, or, to be more specific, nerds, about the kind of equipment they used to film themselves having sex. (Whew!)

Hilarity ensued.

(I went and read all the comments. Good times...)

Sexy Movie Thursday: The Tudors

Renaissance costumes + beheaded wives = hot?

Actually, yes! The lushness and decadence of Henry VIII's court is decidedly sexy, as are the starring actors, including Jonathan Rhys Meyers (above) and Henry Cavill.

The thing I like most about The Tudors is how adult it is. The dialogue, the history, the intrigues, the slow burning passions...are all way more grown-up than the typical sit-com that you can watch while the kids are in the room.

And yes, there are sex scenes. Brief but steamy, with literal bodice ripping and tasty glimpses of the king's naked lean body. I remember one particular scene, I think it was at the end of the last episode of the first season, when Henry and Anne have almost-sex in a shaded forest glen. I had to rewind and rewatch that one a couple of times, it was so good!

And, there's something about the doomed nature of Henry and Anne's love affair that makes it all the more exciting. These are people who live in the shadow of constant threat of death, dishonor, and destruction--and it makes them grab for love and sex with all the more passion.

Voyeur Scale:
Period drama with modern nudity.

Watchable with Husband?
Mine gets bored by the dialogue, but likes to be alerted when there are bare breasts on the screen.

Available Digitally?
YES. I've been watching it digitally through Netflix. Instant gratification makes me so happy.

View Trailer?

Yes please!

Vibe of the Week: We-Vibe

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Erotic...ca

Seriously, try it. It's so much better now than it used to be. Here are a few reviews and tips on finding what you want:

I recently purchased Nancy Madore's Enchanted. I bought the digital version, which was delivered to my iPod instantly. (Have I mentioned the love I feel for instantaneousness?) The book is a collection of short erotic stories based on classic fairy tales, each focusing on a sexual fantasy or quirk. There's Bluebeard the sadomasochist, The Goose Girl-on-girl, and The Sheep in Wolves' clothes or the wife in hookers' clothes.

I think her books are excellent introductions into erotica, because you get a taste of what's out there and can more easily find what you like. She also has a collection entitled The Twelve Dancing Princesses, which tells a story about each of the princesses and the discontent they feel in their marriages. And how they remedy it. (A little bit harder for me as I don't enjoy stories about rocky marriages and balancing kids and husbands. I do that everyday).

Once I figured out what I wanted in erotic fiction, I needed to figure out how to find it. If I was gonna go to a bookstore, I want to spend as little time as possible standing with my two kids in front of a giant sign that reads "ADULT/EROTIC FICTION." So I found theeroticreader.com. The reviews are exactly what I want. Short, without giving away too much and without expounding on the merits of good vs. bad storytelling. I don't want to read a dissertation, I just want to know if my $6.99 is a good investment. They also divide their reviews into categories, like instant reads, or ebooks, and audiobooks.

Another review site, coffeetimeromance.com, lists book reviews by month reviewed. Some feature a little caution blurb which tells you what you're in for. Nice if you don't like something, or if you really, really do. Information is separate for each book, so you have to click on the review to see which format is available. It really needs some categorizing, because I don't have time to click on every book to see if I like it. But it's nice that someone did most of the work for me. Did I mention how lazy I am?

Are you a multitasker? Is holding a book too much trouble? In our next installment, Jen* will tell us all about erotic audiobooks.

Posted by Jen* and Kimberly*

U + Ur Hand

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Desperately Seeking Erotica

I'm in the market for erotica: stories about sex. And maybe something else: a book about positions and techniques, maybe with photos.

Yes, I can shop online. But sometimes it's nice to see in person what you're getting, plus if you pay for it in a store with cash, there's no record that you bought it. You don't have to worry about Amazon recommending More Porn!! for you every time you log in.

So I went to the Borders in my local mall, and was gratified to see a good-sized section clearly labeled EROTICA. Maybe too clearly. Even though there were some tempting tomes waiting on the shelves, I lost my courage and didn't linger. You see, this section was right on the end of an aisle, in full view of the kids' section (where there was storytime happening, for cripes sake) as well as the coffee bar.

I'm no shrinking violet, but I just couldn't bring myself to flip the pages of the luscious looking black and white erotic photography book...with the whole store watching.

So I talked Kimberly* and Stacy* into joining me at a local independent shop where I assumed we'd find a fabulous erotica section, and hoped it would be more discreetly located.

That's when the hunt began. We wandered all over that store for at least half an hour looking for the good stuff.

We found the Relationships section right off, and for a while it looked like that's all we'd find. It had a couple of books on sex that looked interesting, but they were more therapeutic than stimulating.


Obviously, they had a big fat Romance section. Nice, but not what we wanted this trip.


Somewhere along the way, Stacy* found this book and we didn't hear from her for a while. I think she got a few good pointers from it. Stacy*, do you recommend it?


Finally, Kimberly* took charge (as she so often does) and asked a clerk for help. He directed her to the Fiction Anthologies, and it took a bit more searching to find the very small erotica collection actually located under Essays & Criticism.


Finally! We found a few anthologies that looked pretty damn good, though it was disappointing that there were fewer than a dozen to choose from.


I may have to drag Kimberly* and Stacy* to Borders next so we can compare their offerings in more detail. Maybe start with a glass of wine so I won't mind the exposed location.

Safety in Numbers + Liquid Courage = Successful Hunt for Erotica? I sure hope so!

The Wild Thing

Trying to get pregnant? Looks like wilder, more orgasmic sex gives you a better chance at conception.

"Fertility experts say that women who orgasm during intercourse have a much higher chance of conceiving."

And men produce 50% more sperm.

So, ladies, go crazy and be selfish. Your uterus needs you.


from BettyConfidential.com

Sexy Movie Thursday

Swimming Pool is a taut sensual thriller that plays on the juxtaposition of repressed English sensibility and loose french morals. You'll get your fill of naughtiness in the form of voyeurism, plotting, lies and adulterers. Ludivine Sagnier is fantastic as the kinky but savable french slut and you can't get better acting that Charlotte Rampling. It's pretty gratifying to see the sexual tensions and desires of an aging protagonist played out on screen in a way that doesn't seem gross at all. Add to that a murder mystery and you get a pretty nice piece of entertainment.

From imdb:

Swimming Pool focuses on Sarah, a rigid and conservative, yet successful English mystery writer. Sarah's personal life and new novel take a dramatic twist when she meets her publisher's sexy, free-spirited daughter Julie at his gracious mansion in the French countryside.

Voyeur Scale:
Rear Window plus hot french chick.

Watchable with Husband?
Says husband, "That french chick is hot."

Available Digitally?
No.

View Trailer?
Yes

Vibe of the Week

I've got one. She's got one. You've got one. Or if you don't, you should.

Yep, we're talking vibrators, ladies.

Now that we know that most women have (and/or want) them, we're gonna try to help you get the right one. We'll scour the internet for reviews and information, and feature one of these good times each week.
This Week's Vibe:

We're startin' small, four inches to be exact. The Vibratex Water Dancer Mini Vibe is compact and waterproof. The average rating on two sites is four stars. People like the compact design and the power (apparently, it's strong).

Recommended Use:
Use it alone, in the tub or shower, or with your partner. (You can even use it in traffic. Or so I've heard.)

Best Features:

• Strong
• Sturdy
• Compact
• Waterproof
• Gets you where you're going fast
• Uses one AA battery

Worst Features:

The only con seems to be that it's a little loud.

Cost:

$16

Where to find:
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