Forget crazy positions. How about some fun, cheap, easy, doable tips for us real women who just want to shake things up a little bit?1. Clean your room! How many times have you said this to your kids? Removing clutter and kid paraphernalia will give you more of an oasis at the end of a long day.
2. Try getting your sexy back with a new playlist for the bedroom. Music really can soothe the savage beast, or, if you want, let it out!
3. Use a lubricant. There are so many new options available. You can tingle, warm or taste like cherries. It's a smorgasbord of slippery!
4. Try a nice, hot shower with him. It's been a while since my showers were anything but utilitarian. Taking time to touch and wash each other will be a break from the routine and perhaps lead to a more sensual experience.
5. Watch something sexy on TV together. Not everyone feels sexy after watching Sportscenter, so change the channel and see if there's something that turns you both on. Lost, The Tudors, True Blood, The L Word, all good starts.
6. Chew a few Altoids before oral sex. Simple trick = delight for him. And maybe a willingness to try other new things...
7. Bring your laptop to bed. Click around and check out some titillating photos or videos. Discuss. You may learn something new about him.
8. Try out a sex toy. Use a small vibrator on yourself, or let your husband hold it. (This is especially delightful if your husband is behind you).
9. Sexcation. Maybe not "cheap," but so worth it!
Only a couple of these require any forethought on your part, so you have no excuse not to try one tonight!
showers are always a great way to get in the mood
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